tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7574269791828128314.post6616979115542855551..comments2024-03-11T05:02:29.114-06:00Comments on indietutes: lego hex mazeCharity Indietuteshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13517919253368724623noreply@blogger.comBlogger19125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7574269791828128314.post-91603089660492106292012-03-22T04:04:34.104-06:002012-03-22T04:04:34.104-06:00Thank you for your post and to all the commenters ...Thank you for your post and to all the commenters for making me feel less of a bad mummy. I would rather clean the oven than play dress up! Thankfully there is only 13 months between my two so they tend to play together and come to me for cuddles, stories and curling up with a movie. We also bake together and they love 'helping' me with chores. Not sure that last one will stick!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7574269791828128314.post-75469083780762043912012-03-21T06:44:16.527-06:002012-03-21T06:44:16.527-06:00I am rubbish at playing and I wish I could be bett...I am rubbish at playing and I wish I could be better. Lego is probably the one thing I enjoy doing for a while with the kids. I wish I liked crafting!Actually Mummy...http://www.actuallymummy.co.uknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7574269791828128314.post-3934763948206799442012-03-20T17:57:43.434-06:002012-03-20T17:57:43.434-06:00I have a two-year-old, so "play" involve...I have a two-year-old, so "play" involves dragging me over to the couch he uses as his raceway, and then lining up all his cars bumper-to-bumper and not letting me touch them, but I MUST be giving him my full attention. "No, Mama!!" from an OCD toddler. Awesome.Mandynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7574269791828128314.post-89995238792581522192012-03-20T13:46:26.692-06:002012-03-20T13:46:26.692-06:00i can sit and play candyland with my daughter once...i can sit and play candyland with my daughter once, but i am desperate to escape when she begs to play it a 2nd or 3rd time. board games make me bored. my new thing is to say yes to one round of a game or to a given amount of time playing it, then i'll read her a book or craft with her. but my all-time favorite is when i set her up with something to do on one side of the dining room table... right across from my sewing machine! :)rachelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00048819032114606793noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7574269791828128314.post-75481613817650239452012-03-20T05:41:42.963-06:002012-03-20T05:41:42.963-06:00I was grinning as I read your post, as you once ag...I was grinning as I read your post, as you once again put into words what I couldn't express so eloquently. Was beginning to feel I was broken as a play-at-home mom, as I would rather get the kids up to the counter to help me cook or plan gardens out in the yard or a bike ride to the creek to throw rocks. It is painful to watch me try to sit and engage over action figures and tiny motorcycles. I attribute it to my ADD tendencies. I remind myself often that "play" is their job; playing with them is not the same as goofing off and not accomplishing things on my list. I'm getting better at putting play on my list of things to accomplish, but it's a work in progress. But here I am rambling so as to avoid playing "X Games" again :)Brandyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11092109680331971574noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7574269791828128314.post-23501902798511515282012-03-15T20:18:28.870-06:002012-03-15T20:18:28.870-06:00I, too, have a hard time engaging in creative play...I, too, have a hard time engaging in creative play with my children. I cook with them, read hundreds of books, tell stories, play board games, teach them and give them loves. But I avoid play like the plague! Their Daddy is really good at playing with them, though. And for this, i am truly grateful. However, being a better "player" is something I am working on . . .Courtniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14254695759790007455noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7574269791828128314.post-57120354272271638992012-03-15T00:02:41.866-06:002012-03-15T00:02:41.866-06:00yep, that's what siblings are foryep, that's what siblings are forHelennoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7574269791828128314.post-19997183472451992282012-03-14T10:44:40.027-06:002012-03-14T10:44:40.027-06:00Great job trying to play more with your kids.
I a...Great job trying to play more with your kids. <br />I am in the same boat-wishing I was better at playing with my daughter. I found that playing board/card/video games (mancala, scrabble slam, blockus, viva pinata, etc.) with my daughter works best for us. Sometimes we play for one quick game, other times we will play for an hour or longer.Tinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09611764295297526639noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7574269791828128314.post-35869992734250427632012-03-14T10:18:16.435-06:002012-03-14T10:18:16.435-06:00I hated playing as a child!! I preferred reading o...I hated playing as a child!! I preferred reading or listening to adult conversation! :)<br />I can't stand playing with the kids, that is what they have each other for. :) I do enjoy overhearing their games though. <br />Since I never have played with them, they don't even expect me to. I truly admire my husband for getting on the floor and roughhousing with them, and playing silly word games and silly routines with them. At least they get it from somewhere!Sarah Faithhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08878664620465280344noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7574269791828128314.post-86707685009885659292012-03-14T09:09:36.490-06:002012-03-14T09:09:36.490-06:00Charity, once again you are in my head. I would ra...Charity, once again you are in my head. I would rather eat my own arm than play for five minutes. If terrorists wanted to break me, bodily harm might not work but playing with my kids definitely would. I usually end up falling asleep on the floor and then they decorate me with stickers while I'm out. Win-win.Jordannoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7574269791828128314.post-53214686125517433002012-03-14T05:05:01.077-06:002012-03-14T05:05:01.077-06:00I don't play with my kids either, but there ar...I don't play with my kids either, but there are 3 of them - close in age - so they don't even ask. They have each other. I always feel like I don't have enough time to do everything as it is that I'm sure I wouldn't last long before getting all fidgety over things that needed to be done.Jenniferhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18417570778398224544noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7574269791828128314.post-35100302155525058262012-03-14T02:07:03.223-06:002012-03-14T02:07:03.223-06:00I so know what you mean! I just can't find the...I so know what you mean! I just can't find the relax-and-don't-think-about-what-you-need-to-do-or-can-be-doing mode!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07399736871424739544noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7574269791828128314.post-14733065885244001932012-03-13T23:15:24.918-06:002012-03-13T23:15:24.918-06:00I don't/didn't like playing with (my) kids...I don't/didn't like playing with (my) kids either. I'd rather go on a walk and show them flowers, bushes and trees, clouds, birds, anything. Or I am outside with them in the garden. I think to let the children participate in my life is enough. Therefore they can help me clean, cook, gardening what ever is needs to be done. When they are young, they love it. When they are older they have to do it but they are used to it. And last but not least, don't they have brothers and sisters or friends to play with them?Babajezahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14538344149217844113noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7574269791828128314.post-91747369605826656812012-03-13T21:37:10.553-06:002012-03-13T21:37:10.553-06:00I wrote a post about this very thing, last year!
h...I wrote a post about this very thing, last year!<br />http://www.falafelandthebee.com/?p=5898<br />I just don't play.<br />I give you lots of credit for trying!<br />~MichelleFalafel and the Beehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15623240685463357550noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7574269791828128314.post-18301692321689027172012-03-13T21:23:34.871-06:002012-03-13T21:23:34.871-06:00ditto, ditto and ditto.
i tend to read a book, wi...ditto, ditto and ditto.<br /><br />i tend to read a book, with tons of comments from my children to regain my attention.Laurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12146270736158297146noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7574269791828128314.post-19288335119501627282012-03-13T21:06:54.461-06:002012-03-13T21:06:54.461-06:00I'm the crafter, the baker, the book-reder, th...I'm the crafter, the baker, the book-reder, the one to chat with. I just can't play no matter how hard I try. My husband is the go-to play friend in this house.Kylie's Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17713103747521473866noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7574269791828128314.post-66654014022142624652012-03-13T19:31:15.143-06:002012-03-13T19:31:15.143-06:00Thanks for this. I turned to your blog tonight fo...Thanks for this. I turned to your blog tonight for some of your wonderful honesty and perspective on parenting and got it.<br /><br />I'm not great at playing with my kids. I am too focussed on goal-oriented tasks and to-do lists and find myself setting random and needless timelines on play. But when I manage to let go and stop worrying about what's not getting done I have a great time. They are both fantastic at pretend and, while I remain baffled by their many rules ("okay, pretend this") I marvel at their imagination. I am, however, terrible at tolerating kids movies and TV. When they watch they want me to watch with them, and I'm always sneaking onto the computer to surf blogs.Rachelnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7574269791828128314.post-34296625374184075372012-03-13T19:02:39.434-06:002012-03-13T19:02:39.434-06:00I was going to say a similar comment to Anita. I h...I was going to say a similar comment to Anita. I have two kids and they play together and I think it's the best thing ever. My daughter at two is so much easier than my son at two because I don't have to entertain her. <br /><br />When my son was her age I was buying Duplo sets for *me* to play with because when you only have 10 blocks or whatever comes in the small set it's pretty boring.Brenda Lhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12925641541105221884noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7574269791828128314.post-73968672196461556112012-03-13T18:46:28.287-06:002012-03-13T18:46:28.287-06:00I don't. That's why I had lots of kids......I don't. That's why I had lots of kids...for them to play with each other. ;)Anitahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11835121374274839185noreply@blogger.com